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Marriage is to be Fun!

Marriage is a chance to join the forces with someone we trust to form…

A Partner is a Cheerleader.

Early in my practice, a man came for a divorce because his wife did not meet his needs. I for once kept my mouth shut and gasped, “why?”. He said life is like a football game. My wife is very supportive when I’m doing well, but if I hit a rough patch in my career she becomes doubtful… That is the time I need a cheerleader, not to say I’m going to score, but that the game is not over, she’s with me and that she knows I am trying! As I listened, I realized that with mutual cheerleading, marriage is the wind under our sails!  Continue reading

The Longer the Marriage, The Smaller the Bed

There is a bed for every season of marriage. Initially, a bed is any size. With the addition of children, a bigger bed gives comfort. As the marriage matures then the bed needs to get smaller so that you can always reach out and touch your partner. Continue reading

Marriage is a Merger, Not an Acquisition.

Marriage is the melding of the best of both people’s pasts, with room for new ideas and traditions. Failure to respect the input of a spouse will create deep resentment and will undermine the marriage. Continue reading